If you’ve
done a season of international races, you’ll know who Heli and Vio are. And you
can’t know one without knowing the other. Relationships, and even marriages,
are not unusual on the slalom scene but the blond couple are remarkable for
their incredible ability to be continuously together. The Austrians are not
only life partners but training partners, so are in each others presence both
on and off the water. Every. Single. Day.
Vio
smiles when I ask her what the trick is. ‘There are some words you are not
allowed to use. Like ‘always’; ‘you always
do this…’, she answers. ‘If we need [time out] it’s mostly because we are
really, really tired and that’s a perfect time to take a rest day and spend
some time together.’
Heli adds
that they have less communication issues than regular coach-athlete
relationships. ‘I think…it’s really hard for coaches to use the right words’, says
Heli. ‘It’s not the same as what they want to say. But we know each other so
well that she knows what I mean. Also, I know a lot of different inputs, like
if she’s a little bit ill or injured. But I think we can separate our training
and our private lives. It’s not like if we fight on the water we’ll fight
afterwards.’
For the
past few years they can not have had much time to fight anyway. It’s almost
three years to the day since their son Milo was born. No tests are needed to
prove he is an Oblinger-Peters: blond hair, blue eyes- tick, tick. Like many
children of elite athletes, he was born after an Olympics. ‘We were always pretty
much agreed on [having children]… It was about trying to find the right time.
And then before Beijing we thought we’d try to see what
happened. There was a time before Beijing when everything was really
upsetting and there were a lot of negative experiences and we just thought,
‘this can’t be everything’. Of course it’s our jobs but it’s also our lives and
it’s the life we’ve been living together. So we wanted to have something that
is outside canoeing.’
‘Then
everything happened really fast – faster than we expected!’ chuckles Heli.
So now
Heli and Vio have little choice but to separate their time on and off the
water. It works to their advantage, claims Heli. ‘Now we also make activities
with Milo , we go swimming or something, and
it takes your mind off. Even if you don’t sleep or read a book or do something
for yourself it really takes your mind off and you are recovered.’
It can’t
all be games and play though? ‘It does still take a lot away...’, Vio concedes.
‘Yeah, a lot of sleep!’ says Heli, grinning broadly. ‘And a lot of energy. But
it’s so worth it. Like when he was small and sometimes just cried the whole
night - you don’t care. Nowadays with the training you have to be much more
flexible. The kids are often ill or whatever… you can’t follow a strict plan.’
Vio
agrees wholeheartedly. ‘We’ve been in the sport so long and we’ve seen so many
different people and how they try to perfect every little detail in their
athlete life. And sometimes it just makes me laugh because if they go to bed at
ten past nine they get really annoyed...’
As if to
prove his parents’ point, Milo interrupts Vio to discuss his toy car catalogue.
Heli
continues, ‘And also with food! I think I hadn’t eaten any sausages for ten or fifteen
years before Milo was born but now? Sausages,
nuggets, and fries! First I started with porridge and now I get more yummy
things.’
Flexibility
may be the name of the game on a day-to-day basis but it’s clear the long term
plans are not negotiable: anyone who has seen Vio paddle has seen how
determined she is to be the quickest in the field.
Vio’s
impressive return to elite level racing so soon after Milo ’s birth is a perfect example of
this drive. She says she had it all mapped out - Caesarean in April followed by
recovery, some training and then World Championships in September 2009. Some
may say she is understating it when she admits it ‘was a bit crazy.’ The
attitude seems characteristic of Vio’s strength of mind though: rather than the
recovery impinging on her race, she focussed on the race to help her through
the recovery. ‘It was so fresh,’ she remembers, ‘I really wanted to paddle
again, get back in the boat again. Especially because after Beijing when we found out I was pregnant
I didn’t do any more races, I didn’t have the chance to race again so it was
something that I wanted to do.’ The result was a very solid 5th
place. The coach in Heli expands on that
extraordinary achievement: ‘There’s a certain amount that is physical but the
rest is just putting everything together. That’s a very, very big thing.’
And Heli
has enough experience to know. Although he started paddling later than most at
the age of 16 after a skiing injury, he is now looking towards his fifth
Olympics this summer. He’s currently making the most of the warm weather and
extra daylight in Australia to train more than he feels he
would in Europe . Despite training as hard as any
young aspirant, there’s some fatherly wisdom creeping into his approach. ‘It
was hard before because you’ve always got a dream and you try to catch your
goals. But now you try your best and if it’s good then you enjoy it, but Milo doesn’t care if you don’t win or
if you are last. As soon as he sees you he wants to play.’ Heli seems to comply
with Milo ’s play requests on a regular
basis, and there’s something really mischievous and good-natured about Heli
that makes him Milo ’s perfect side-kick.
With
Olympian genes and a coach for a father, it’s easy to picture Milo as the next generation of
Austrian canoe slalom. ‘I’d really like to see him do other sports and become a
sporty person but I don’t know,’ reflects Vio. ‘I think I’m going to be the
last person to make him paddle… To think that one day he might sit in a boat
and paddle down white water. When I see some of the small kids I think, what
must their mothers think!? I remember how I was hanging on to the big metal
poles - I was hanging on to one of those saying ‘I don’t want to go down! … I’m
not planning his career.’
Heli and
Vio’s careers beyond the Olympics are unconfirmed too. Second or third children
sound imminent and Heli has promised Vio that he’ll coach her when he retires -
‘but I think he’s had enough of me,’ she grins. ‘Plus I have too many things I
need to learn so I really can’t stop.’
For days
after my chat with Heli and Vio I try to answer my initial question: how do
they manage to live, train, and raise a child together, whilst living in each
others pockets? Despite reading them through several times, my notes aren’t any
help. There’s no one thing that stands out. As a whole though? There’s a great deal of love, respect and support
in that relationship. And boys, before you knock it, just remember it’s
produced 19 World Cup medals, 2 World Championship medals and an Olympic medal
so far. And counting.
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